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As Christmas Day winds down ....
....It is my dearest hope that you and I keep The Spirit of Christmas and its Joys  in our hearts All Year Long!!  ~ Love to all of you and abundant Blessings in the rest of this year and in all of the year to come! 

I have had four Radio Interviews and have my fifth one coming on Jan. 4, 2011. I have been invited to a 5 day, Radio Program. week to be set after the Host review "How to Survive on a LIttle."

Also, I have been offered a chance to have my own Radio Pilot Program for 13 weeks. I will be totally in charge. This is to discuss my book "How To Survive on a LIttle." I am in the process of getting a sponsor or sponsors for the cost of $6,900.

This could be a great opportunity for me and my books if I am able to do this. I am asking that my BTW family pray for me. And if it's God's Will, it will be.

Note**I don't know how to work the BTW site very well. I accidently discover this area.

To all of you,

I pray that God continues to bless us all abundantly during this exciting season as we all remember the true reason for this season!
Love you all, Bonita

On December  18th.. 2010.... My Best Friend.... And The Only Man Other Than My Family That Truly Loved Me.... Left His Earthly Abode....... For His Heavenly Home.    When I was Thirteen Years Old My Mom Let Me Call James My Boy Friend... ......

But What She Didn't Know Was He Had Already Told Me I Was His Girl Friend And He Was Going To Marry Me... When I Was Older             >>>>>>>>>>>>>

.... And He Did.  On February 24, 1959  We Were Married..... And For The Next 27 Years... And Two Children

....... Life Changed Forever.......

Even Though We Were Divorced........ We Still Existed As A Family...... We Vacationed As Family...... And Raised Our Children Together  And In Agreement With Each Other Until They Were Adults >>>>>>>> I Learned The Meaning Of True Love From James.............. And How To Treat Someone That You Truly Love..

When You Say "I Love You,"  You Are Actually Saying You Have Awakened  A Place In Me Where I Am Love........

Deep Within our Being Is A Place Of Peace.. Joy.. And Knowing.... It Is A Place Called Love!!   A Relationship Is Placing one's Heart And Soul In The Hands Of Another While Taking Charge Of another In One's Soul And Heart....  When We Enter A Relationship.. We Don't Often Think Or See Beyond The Physical Being.... We Are Attracted to The Body, Face Personality. We Make Like What the Person Does Or How They Do It And Want To Be A Part Of That...We May Even Experience a Pull From Within That We Can't Actually Explain.......... But How Often Do We Stop To consider The True Depth Of The Person We Are Attracted To??  There Is A Being Before Us Who Has A Past, Present And Future...... There Is Flesh And Bones, Hurts And Scars,, Feelings.. Thoughts And Ideals......  When We Enter The World Of Another being We Must Be Willing To Be A Part Of It All... When Someone Entrusts Their Heart To You They Are Giving You A Piece Of Their Soul..... You Cannot Treat A Soul Casually...  You Must Protect,  Nurture And Handle It With Care.. Our Interactions With One Another  Go Far Beyond The Face.. Body And Hair...  Experience Is A Good Teacher  But She Runs Up Big Bills.......... Every Encounter Is  An Experience  Of Growth........

I Will Fear No Evil: For Thou Art With Me.....  Psalm 23:4

No Matter What Is Happening In our Relationships, Fear Nothing And No One... When You Walk With The Consciousness Of The Creator.... There Is Nothing To Fear.. Do Not  Fear That People Will Harm You Or Leave You..... Do Not Fear People Who Threaten You.... Do Not Fear Obstacles That Confront You.... You Are Walking With The Strong Arm Of The Law.... Do Not Fear Disapproval.. Criticism..... or Judgment.. Know That The Only Energy That Has Any Power In Your Life Is The Gift Of Breath From God....  Do Not Fear Places.. Darkness...Separation Or Divorce.....Being Alone.... Cast Aside... For When You Walk With the Master.. You Are In The Best Company Available....

Loosing Someone You Love~~~~~~~~~~

Those Who Don't Know How To Weep With Their Whole Heart....... Don't Know How To Laugh Either....

When We Lose A Loved One To Death,... It Is Perfectly Normal To Grieve.... We Must Honor And Recognize Each Stage Of The Grief and Every Emotion We Have... There Will Be Shock, Denial, Anger, Confusion, Fear, Helplessness, Numbness, And Eventually, Acceptance... There Will Be A Point When We Don't Know What To Do... At That Point We Must Understand And Accept, There Is No Death; There Is No End;  There Is Only Transformation..  When We Allow Ourselves To Grieve... We Release The Negative Thoughts And Emotions That Make It Easier To Accept The Changes... Grief Is Natural... Normal... And To Be Expected..  We Owe It To Ourselves And The Memory Of The Relationship To Grieve And Cleanse Our Soul.........

Good Night My Sweet Prince!!

Dallas soldier who specialized in disarming IEDs dies in Afghanistan

12:00 AM CST on Thursday, December 2, 2010

Pvt. Devon J. Harris, a 2004 graduate of Dallas' Skyline High School , quickly demonstrated his prowess at clearing improvised explosive devices from the path of American troops in Afghanistan.

He was deployed to the combat zone in October, shortly after a three-day visit home to North Texas.

"His unit was very proud of Devon. He had gone on several missions disarming those IEDs," said his father, Tennyson Harris of Rowlett. "He'd gotten so good, they put him in the lead Humvee. They had a lot of confidence in him."

Pvt. Harris, 24, was killed in Wardak province, Afghanistan, on Saturday when insurgents attacked his combat-engineering unit with a rocket-propelled grenade.

Services are pending the return of his body Friday from Dover Air Force Base in Delaware.

Pvt. Harris was born in Dallas, where he was an active member of Southern Hills Church of Christ. He played the violin and wanted to become a history teacher.

After graduating from Skyline, he attended Southwest Christian College in Terrell for two years. He joined the Army in August 2009.

He was a member of the Brigade Special Troops Battalion of the 10th Mountain Division of Fort Drum in New York, but his unit had been based at Fort Polk, La., for the past year.

Pvt. Harris' generosity was apparent on his visits home, his father said.

"He would buy his friends different items, and then he wouldn't have enough money to catch the bus to go back," Mr. Harris said. "He'd come to me and say, 'Daddy, I need some bus fare so I can get back to Polk. ... I had to help someone.' "

In addition to his father, Pvt. Harris is survived by his stepmother, Felicia Harris of Rowlett; his mother, Sorainya Harris of Mesquite ; his brothers, Christopher Johnson of Mesquite, David Parker of Lancaster and Michael Rufus of Dallas; and his sisters, Ashley Harris of Mesquite (his twin sister), Monica Harris Smith of Cedar Hill and Stephanie Rufus of Rowlett.